I shared this post recently. I wanted to be honest with everyone that I just wasn’t feeling it this year. The post I shared was:
I’m usually all about setting goals and charging into the new year, but this time it hit differently. I caught myself thinking, "Same sh*t, different year."
And then I thought of a hamster wheel! You know the feeling—running and running but never really getting anywhere? That’s where I found myself. And honestly, I still kind of feel that way today. And possibly I'm not the only one who’s felt like that.
But here’s what I realized—it’s OK to feel this way. It’s OK to take a moment to sit with it instead of forcing positivity or slapping on a new goal just because the calendar flipped over.
What matters is what we do next. If I feel like I’m stuck on the hamster wheel, then it’s my responsibility to figure out how to step off—or maybe even get flung off it (because, let’s face it, sometimes that’s exactly what we need!).
So I’m sharing this today to say that if you’re feeling stuck—whether it’s in your job, your business, or just life in general—you’re not alone. I’m here to remind you (and myself) that it’s never too late to make a change, but it’s also OK to pause and reflect before rushing into the next thing.
And if you’re ready to make that change in your career this year but not sure where to start—that’s exactly what I help people do. Let’s chat.
How’s your 2025 starting out? Are you fired up or feeling a bit like that hamster?
Now, I know it’s easy for me to say, set some goals, journal, read, move and so on, but it just gets tiring right? I know all of this – it’s like I know that if I burn more calories than I eat, then I lose or maintain my weight.
We all know these things but it doesn’t mean that it’s easy or we do it. I don’t know about you, but I just get damn tired sometimes! And this is when we end up in this endless loop. Yes, it’s great that the New Year, gives us an opportunity to reset.
Fresh Starts: The Psychology Behind New Year Motivation
As the new year begins, it's common to experience a range of emotions, from excitement and hope to anxiety and pressure. An article from Psychology Today titled "Fresh Starts: The Psychology Behind New Year Motivation" discusses the "fresh start effect," which is the psychological boost we experience when temporal landmarks, such as the beginning of a new year, help us mentally separate our past selves from our future potential.
Research by Libby and Eibach (2002) suggests that the new year’s emphasis on renewal can amplify our sense of self-efficacy—the belief in our ability to achieve our goals. This heightened self-efficacy is crucial for fostering persistence and resilience, both of which are essential for overcoming obstacles and maintaining progress.